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PERSONAL GROWTH

By Dr. John C. Maxwell

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I vividly remember a conversation I had many years ago in 1974, which marked a turning point in

my leadership journey. I was sitting at a Holiday Inn with my friend, Kurt Campmeyer, when he

asked me if I had a personal growth plan. I didn't. In fact, I didn't even know you were supposed

to have one.

Up until that point, the best term for my growth would be "accidental growth." I didn't grow on

purpose, but I loved people and worked hard so that I caught a few things along the way.

That night with Kurt, I realized that to grow like I wanted, my personal development couldn't be

hit-and-miss. I needed to initiate and activate. I made a decision to devote myself to personal

growth. I literally made personal growth my personal mission.

In my book The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership, I talk about the Law of Process, which says,

"Leaders develop daily, not in a day." Our natural inclination is to overestimate the event and

underestimate the process. We wait for a special occasion or an intense experience to boost our

growth instead of appreciating the process. In the words of my friend Kevin Myers: "Everyone is

looking for a quick fix, but what they really need is fitness."

We don't mature momentarily, but over the long-term. As we continue on our quest to become

more skillful as leaders, let's look at seven statements about the growth process.

1. Growth is not automatic. Paul Harvey said it best: "You can tell you're on the road to success;

it's uphill all the way." You can't coast uphill. Growth doesn't happen by itself; it requires an active

investment of time.

Earl Nightengale said, "If you'll spend one hour a day, every day for five years on a given subject,

within five years you'll become an expert on that subject." In 1974, I made that decision—to set

aside one hour per day for personal growth. Over thirty years later, I find that the more I learn and

grow, the more precious that hour is to me.

2. Growth is the great separator between those who succeed and those who do not. When I see

a person beginning to separate themselves from the pack, it's almost always due to personal

growth. As Bennis & Nanus say, "It is the capacity to develop and improve their skills that

distinguishes leaders from followers."

When I went to college, there was no gap between me and my peers, none at all. Since 1974, I

have diligently followed through on my commitment to grow an hour every day, and now the gap,

in most cases, is wide. Am I smarter than my former classmates? Not at all. Many of them

danced circles around me academically. The growth factor—my long-term commitment to

personal development—made the difference.

3. Growth takes time, and only time can reveal certain lessons to us. We've all heard,

"Experience is the best teacher," but it never has been and never will be. Evaluated experience is

the best teacher. Reflective thinking is required to turn experience into insight. If you're a young

LW subscriber without a wealth of personal experience, borrow the experience. Ask questions,

listen, and learn from a successful leader that has gone before you.

4. The more we grow, the more we know we need to grow. In other words, when you start

developing yourself, instead of feeling wise, you'll be struck by how much you don't know. Alvin

Toffler, in Future Shock, once observed, "The illiterate of the future are not those who cannot

read or write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn."

5. Growth equals change. To develop, we must step away from comfort and welcome fresh and

challenging experiences. Growth demands a temporary surrender of security. It may mean giving

up familiar but limiting patterns, safe but unrewarding work, values no longer believed in, and

relationships that have lost their meaning.

6. Growth inside fuels growth outside. The highest reward of our toil is not what we get for it, but

what we become by it. At the age of 17, I decided to read extensively, file my favorite articles, and

prepare lessons. Little did I realize that out of the simple discipline of reading, filing, and preparing

lessons, I would receive content, develop creativity, begin to speak, and eventually author

numerous books.

7. Choose to grow in the areas of your strengths, not in the areas of your weakness. There are

only four things I do well, just four, and I focus exclusively on them. I lead, communicate, create,

and network. That's it. I spend all of my time on one of those four strength zones. The secret of

successful people lies in their ability to discover their strengths and to organize their life so that

these strengths can be applied.

Benjamin Franklin personifies the spirit of inventiveness of the modern world. His

accomplishments read like an almanac of greatness:

Inventor; poet; philosopher; pamphleteer; distinguished member of three national

academies of science; America's first Postmaster General; founder of Philadelphia's first

police force, lending library, and the academy later to become the University of

Pennsylvania; founder of the first fire insurance company; delegate to the Constitutional

Convention; Drafter of the Declaration of Independence; one of America's most effective

statesmen and ambassadors.

Yet for all of his achievements, the epitaph that Franklin wrote for himself simply reads, "Here lies

the body of Ben Franklin, printer."

In honoring his humble roots as a printer's apprentice, Benjamin Franklin reveals the mystery to

his greatness. It was in the world of printing where Franklin was first exposed to new books,

writers, and ideas. His fame, accomplishments, and accolades would never have been possible

without the love of learning and habits of growth imprinted in his life during his early days as a

printer.